How big do women really like it, and does size truly matter? In this video, Dr. Rena Malik, a urologist, breaks down the science ...

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Do Women Really Care About Size? The TRUTH from a Urologist

you can't go far without hearing about bde or how lucky someone is because their partner is well-endowed but is that what women really want I'm Dr Reena Malik urologist and pelvic surgeon and today we're going to talk about women's penal size preferences now as many of you know who've been following me for quite some time the most reliable route for women to achieve orgasm is through the clitoris not through vaginal stimulation in fact 85% of women need clitoris stimulation in order to achieve climax which begs the question then why would penal size matter anyways so let's start with Anatomy the average penal length is about 5.1 to 5.3 in erect or stretched now researchers use stretch length to assess penal length and is a surrogate for erect length and so that's typically how they're getting this number now the range can be anywhere from 3.5 to 6 .5 in on average but there will obviously be outliers in both directions now what about vaginal size the vaginal length is about 3 to 3.5 in in length in the non arouse State and it's about 1 to 1.5 in in width now when aroused the vagina actually lengthens and widens to nearly double its size so that can be anywhere from 5 in to to 6 in on average so what that tells me is that generally people are made to fit each other right they're about average the average penis is going to go in the average Vina and it's going to feel very pleasurable so is a larger penis meaning larger than average actually more pleasurable well in some cases it could be if a female deres a lot of pleasure from G erogenous Zone stimulation or G-spot stimulation which I've talked about previously on my Channel or from cervical stimulation then she may prefer a larger or more girthy penis in those cases however as I mentioned before the large majority of women are going to Climax from clitoral stimulation which doesn't require a penetrating penis let's take the anatomy out of it let's find out what do women say when asked so in 2002 they did a study asking women about does size matter and in fact the large majority didn't really find it to be very important 80% thought it wasn't important whereas just over 20% did say length and girth were important also generally speaking when you ask women with Partners 85% of them are generally satisfied with their partner size so the again the large majority of women are satisfied you can see again and again we're seeing this sort of 80% number pop up because again 80% of women fall into the category where they probably don't need a penetrating penis to orgasm and they will find pleasure from other me means from other types of stimulation okay you could argue surveys are not the best marker for True uh feelings or true preferen is because people can lie because they want to please the researcher they want to make themselves look better and if they say that size Matters they may be looked upon as less favorably but what about when people go to buy sex toys right if they're buying phallic sex AIDS then you would imagine that a lot of them would be buying very large sex AIDS that would commiserate with the size that we think women want but when you look at studies of people of what number one what sex toy vendors sell and what sex toys women buy the large majority of sex toys are in the average range between 4 to 6 in and when women buy sex toys they on average buy ones that are just slightly larger than average about 6 in now could this obsession with size be because we are really bad at estimating size right could we just be really bad at looking at a phus and deciding what is the length of the phus and in fact a study recently published looked at that they they basically showed both male and female participants differ size penises and they had them guess how long and how wide they were and interestingly women tended to overestimate the length of the penis when it was 6 or 6 and 1/2 in in size so they would estimate that it was almost 7 to 1.2 in longer than it actually is and in men they also tended to overestimate penises when they were 5.56 or 6.5 in and that range of overestimation was significantly higher they estimated that those penises were half an inch to almost 2 in 1.85 in longer than what they actually were which then tells us that essentially we're just really bad at estimating length and because of that we're probably looking at average siiz penises and thinking they're larger than they actually are so bottom line no one really knows what they want let's stop focusing on genital proportions that are really out largely out of our control and let's focus on how we can improve pleasure in our relationships we need to start talking to each other telling each other what we enjoy what we like what turns us on and not being so serious about sex sex should be fun sex should be playful and we should stop shaming people for the size of their genitals for the size of their breast for the size of anything because at the end of the day if you're a healthy human being and doing the best you can to stay healthy that's all you can do and if you're wondering how can I improve pleasure in the bedroom make sure to download my 100% free ebook with everything I know about improving pleasure and my top 10 tips tips to give you that you can use at home to help improve pleasure in your relationships check it out completely free in the description below and as always we're going to take care of yourself because you're worth it

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