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Does masturbation impact how much you want to have sex with your partner?

nearly everyone masturbates but I get asked all the time will a sex toy replace me will my partner still be able to climax with me if they're using a sex toy I'm Dr Rena Malik urologist and pelvic surgeon and I'm going to explain to you if that's even possible and is a sex toy good or bad for your sex life today I'm going to explain everything you need to know about female masturbation and how it affects their sex lives in the U.S 80 of women between the ages of 18 and 40 report masturbating at some point in the last year when you break it up by age group women between the ages of 18 and 24 in the last year about 46 percent of them admit to masturbating in the last year between 25 and 29 about 77 and between 30 and 49 about 46 admit to masturbating in the last year you may be wondering do women masturbate because it's better than sex or is there other reasons and in fact when you look at the data on women who do masturbate the reason reason they use masturbation or the way they perceive it as a distinctly different experience than partnered sex most often it's because women want to have physical pleasure stress anxiety reduction or they might be having issues with their partner whereas they view partnered sex as a time for Mutual enjoyment closeness bonding and a way to please their partner or for their partner's enjoyment a group of researchers sought to identify if women who participate in masturbation had orgasmic difficulties with masturbation with partnered sex and if there was a link with either of those activities so they surveyed about 2 200 women and they asked them questions about how often they masturbated if they had issues during masturbation what specific types of activities they did during that time and if they also did those activities during partnered sex so they asked these women what kind of activities they did during masturbation these most commonly include clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimulation using some sort of Aid like a vibrator having some sort of specific position having anal stimulation and using fantasies and they looked at how often they used these same things during partnered sex and over 90 percent of the women who engage in clitoral or vaginal stimulation Incorporated that into partnered sex however the use of the other things that they did during masturbation was less common for example only about half of women use the same type of body position that they preferred during masturbation and even less about 46 percent use anal stimulation and about a third used an aid or Incorporated their sexual fantasy into partnered sex so did women who masturbated more often have difficulty with orgasming or climax in fact the answer was no women who had difficulty with orgasming did not actually correlate with women who masturbated more often in fact people who had difficulty orgasming often had difficulty orgasming with masturbation due to either lack of time lack of arousal certain medications or pain making it difficult for them to reach climax all of those make sense interestingly women who masturbated more actually had less problems with arousal during sex in fact those women who aligned those activities that they did during masturbation and they used them in partnered sex had the greatest orgasmic pleasure had the lowest time to orgasm or lowest orgasmic latency and had less difficulty getting aroused and in fact the majority of women 57 percent preferred having sex with their partner only 12 percent said that they preferred masturbating seven percent of they were both equally satisfying and a quarter said it dependents sometimes masturbation was more pleasurable and sometimes partnered sex was more pleasurable and I'm sure everybody watching this video can agree that sometimes it just isn't that great in one way or the other for either activity bottom line from what we can extrapolate from this data to real life women who masturbate more frequently are less likely to have problems reaching or orgasm and less problems with arousal and perhaps greater experience with masturbation expands a woman's sexual repertoire and actually helps them identify pleasure points and things that really get them around so they can bring that to partnered sex and both parties can have mutually enjoyable partnered sex so no you're not going to get replaced by a toy and in fact you might actually have better sex because of it if you like this video and you love learning please make sure to subscribe to my channel and share this Channel with your friends I love teaching you guys I'd love to reach more and more people every week as always I'm going to take care of yourself because you're worth it foreign [Music]

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