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Is Sex Better With Lubricant?! What Women Want

have you ever wondered how wet do women like it during intercourse well I'm Dr Bina Malek urologist and pelvic surgeon and today I'm going to talk about women's preferences for lubrication during intercourse if you're new here I make your logic content every Monday and Friday so please subscribe and share this Channel with your friends if you enjoy what you see so the amount of lubrication a woman thinks that she's supposed to have can be quite variable depending on if she's post-menopausal what her cultural beliefs are what her personal preference is and as well as the type of object that might be penetrating her whether it's a finger a toy or a penis and because women can't really compare themselves to anyone else they usually have their own internalized sense of how much lubrication is normal so to answer this question a group of researchers surveyed over 2 000 women to identify what their thoughts were for lubricant use as well as what their perceptions of wetness are and in this study 94 to 97 percent of respect fondants thought that lubrication use made sex more comfortable feel better and more pleasurable about a quarter of women thought that lubricants made it too sticky and a very small number about six percent felt that using lubrication meant that something was wrong with them sexually and about eight percent believe that young women didn't need to use lubrication however these were very small numbers and when asking women if they wanted sex to feel wet 56 percent wanted to feel somewhat wet and 40 percent wanted to feel very wet and interestingly when asking if they felt more easily orgasmic 87.5 percent felt that they were more easily orgasmic when sex was wet overall women said that they felt comfortable using a lubricant and were not offended when their Partners suggested lubricant use in terms of avoiding that slipperiness concern if you're worried about lubricants feeling too slippery there are different types of lubricants I've talked about them in my video about lubricants so make sure you check that one out but basically they there are water-based lubricants which are less slippery and tend to dry quickly but are very cheap and usually have less ingredients in them so have less risk for people who are sensitive you can also get specific lubricants that are great for people who tend to be a bit more sensitive there are also silicone-based lubricants and those are very slippery they tend to last longer and for that reason are great to use for intercourse because you don't have to reapply however you don't want to use those with your sex toys that are made from silicone lastly there are oil-based lubricants which also last a long time and they tend to because they're oil based or oil in nature can kind of stain the sheets around you they also should not be used with a condom because they can cause breakage of the condom however ultimately it's good to try a whole bunch of different types of lubricants and decide what works best for you there are so many available and usually if you call and ask for a sample they'll send it to you also interestingly when looking at age they found that women who were about 40 to 49 years of age felt that using lubrication was over we're all pretty positive compared to those who were 18 to 29 years of age however those in other age groups between 30 and 39 and 50 and over really didn't differ they all felt that lubricant use was normal and this may be because as women age they are experiencing changes that during perimenopause requiring lubrication or just may feel more positive about wanting to use these things in sexual encounters compared to women in their youngest age groups who might actually find it easier to just attain sufficient lubrication on their own however if they don't if you are a young woman watching this and you don't feel like you make enough lubrication it doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you it's great to use lubrication it makes things feel more slippery and more enjoyable and certainly can enhance your sexual experience so there is no shame in using it in fact it's great and fun and everyone should try it I hope you guys found this interesting as always we're going to take care of yourself because you're worth it [Music] thank you [Music]

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