so is there a cure for death grip so death grip is when you have idiosyncratic masturbation so you do the same type of masturbation every single time and your body gets used to that and so it's difficult to then climax when you're with a partner because they can't emulate what you're doing with your hand or your toy or whatever it is and so is there a cure yes absolutely so what I tell patients is stop stop for a couple of weeks a month maybe if you have to and then when you reint reduce masturbation use very light touch add lubricant and that way you can sort of emulate a real person rather than relying on a very firm grip or a very strong vibration or other thing whatever it is you're using