Valentine's Day can come with a lot of pressure: perfect date, perfect mood, perfect s3x. But here's the truth: s3x should never feel ...

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S3x is not mandatory on Valentine’s Day

the fact that Valentine's Day is sort of a big day and it can lead to you feeling a lot of pressure for things to go perfectly sort of counterintuitive but make sure that sex is not mandatory now you can imagine that for some people Valentine's Day planning can get a little stressful and if they know that they have to have sex that day they may be worried if the sex is going to be good enough or they're going to perform well enough and that anxiety can make it difficult to perform or react the way that you normally want to because you're not focused on the pleasure at hand or being mindful with what's going on during the sexual experience but you're thinking about oh my God is this going to work out okay is he or she enjoying it am I performing well enough is this good enough and that is just not going to allow you to enjoy the experience maybe not reach climax or perform and get an erection if you're a man so ultimately take the pressure off focus on being intimate having a great time and make sure that if something goes wrong it's okay you move on you find another way to feel good about yourselves and pleasure each other because there are a multitude of different ways that you can achieve pleasure and they don't always include penetrative vaginal sex

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